Above all else I cherish My slave, in the knowledge that the gift she gives is the greatest gift of all.
I am demanding and take full advantage of the power given to Me but know how to share the pleasure that comes from that power.
I am in control of Myself first and foremost, so that I may take control of others.
As a stern and demanding Master, I can cause My slave to cry real tears, but as one who really loves her, I will then kiss the tears away, without stepping out of character.
In times of trouble, I will leave the roles behind, to be a supportive friend and partner, never forgetting that this is still a loving relationship between two caring individuals.
I am quick to understand the differences between fantasy and reality. I would never ask a slave to put Me before her career, or family, just to satisfy My own pleasure.
To win My slave's mind, body, spirit, and love, I know I must first win her trust.
I will show My slave humor, kindness, and warmth. I must always show her that My guidance and tutoring is knowledgeable and deserving of her attention, I am a Man she can learn from, and trust in My direction.
I am romantic enough to be protective and chivalrous. When called upon, I will fight for My lady's honor. I shall prove to her that I am someone she can lean on, and depend on.
When it comes time to teach My slave her lessons of obedience, I am a strong and unyielding instructor. I will accept no flaw, nothing less than perfection from My slave. Never do I use discipline without a good reason. When I do it is always with a knowledgeable and careful hand.
I am always open to communication and discussion, always ready to hear her wants and needs.
I am patient, taking time to learn her limits, and knowing that as her trust in Me grows, so will O/our relationship.
I never have to demand ritual behavior by her, she responds to Me out of the want of pleasing Me. Compliance comes from the wanting to please, not the fear of punishment.
I understand the fragile nature of mind and body and never violate the trust given to Me.
I am secure enough to laugh at Myself and the absurdities of life, open minded enough to learn new things, and strong enough to grow.
My tools are mind, body, spirit, and love.
I understand that each partner gains most from pleasing the other and that love and trust are the only bindings that truly hold.
On My Honor
- Sir Kelly
i will communicate with complete honesty my needs, desires, limits, and experience. i realize that failing to do so will not only prevent my Master and me from having the best experience possible, but can also lead to physical and emotional harm.
i will not try to manipulate my Master. i will not push to make a scene go the way i feel it should.
i will keep an open mind about trying things that i am not accustomed to or comfortable with and expanding my limits.
i will continue to grow as a submissive and as a human being. i will accept the responsibility of discovering what pleases my Master, and will do my best to fulfill His wishes and desires.
i will allow myself to be punished, but i know that submissive does not equal "doormat".
i will be courteous and helpful to my fellow submissives, i will share my knowledge and experiences with others in the hope that they will learn from where i have been; i will take the time to help those new to the scene start out on the correct path.
i will be responsive to my Master; i will not try to hide what my mind and body are feeling so that i may assist Him in His responsibilities as my Authority.
i know that Dominants are not telepathic, and i will not expect my Master to know thought or feelings which i do not share.
i will never think myself a "better" submissive because i choose to submit on a different level than another. i will not be boastful of experiences i have had as a sub.
i know that my actions reflect upon my Master, and will do my best to help others see him in a positive way, i will not intentionally embarrass or displease my Master.
Above all, i will wear my title of submissive with honor; i will never cause others to think that being submissive means to be weak or sub human.
i will take pride in who and what i am, and will never show myself in a negative way.
