
Preface
This manual was prepared for you to aid in your service to Me, Sir Kelly. I like to conduct safe, sane and consensual scenes that require your best effort and willingness to obey. Without this and your freely given consent I will not accept your submission to me on any level.
Note to other submissives: This manual is written for submissives serving Sir Kelly only. Commands differ between Dominants, therefore it is not recommended that you read this document without showing your Dom first so that he/she may have a chance to review it and make necessary changes. These are My rules of conduct and have nothing to do with the lifestyle norm, please ask your Dom to print this and make the changes that are necessary for his/her leadership before you read it. Caution: Confusion could result in a very painful lesson.
Introduction
You will treat me with respect at all times whether or not we are in a scene. you will address me at all times as Sir, or Sir Kelly. you will not touch me unless you are given permission or to obey an order. Although, you will give up total control you still have the subs bill of rights, our oaths and safe words to protect you. Learning the lessons of D/s here, in my hope, will improve your life in general, by building confidence in what you do and being proud to be a submissive willing to give her all in service to Sir Kelly.
Written Communication
Whether it be e-mail or snail mail, your letters will always begin with a proper greeting, Examples:
- Hi Sir Kelly,
- Hello Sir,
- Dear Baron von Kelnhofer,
- Your Magnificence,
- Howdy your Highness,
- uhhh... scratch the last couple.
You will always capitalize my name and use lower case for your name, to show the respect that you have for me. In the body of the letter, you will use correct American English style and capitalization. I find that ideas are tough enough to put to words and harder to understand without the proper rules of English. To me, rules are important.
Oral Communication
Out of Scene: you will speak to me with respect at all times, and you will address me as Sir or Sir Kelly. Keep slang to a minimum, I understand it's value when used sparingly. When we are in public and it is possible for others not in the lifestyle to hear, you will then address me as Kelly. You will not call me Master at anytime, that title is held in reserve for someone special and may only be used by one person.
In Scene: you may speak to me with respect only about things directly related to the scene. you will not talk about the weather or your other Doms. You will promptly reply to each statement I make with "Yes Sir"! You will respond to every action with "Thank You, Sir".
Silenced In Scene: As your Dom I have the right to demand silence from you.
- In this situation you will only speak when spoken to. You will still reply to each statement I make with "Yes Sir" and every action with "Thank You, Sir".
- you may scream, cry and make other natural spontaneous sounds without reprimand.
- you will ask by saying "Permission to speak, Sir?" if you to want to say something to me, or ask a question.
Preparation
A mismatch of expectations is the last thing we want when I am standing over your naked, bound and gagged body with a whip in my hand. you are required to update your activity checklist 24 hours before each scene. I will not try to guess at your wants, needs and limits, this is too important to leave to chance. Fill out the form.
- Clothing is not important, I will provide what you will wear, although you must appear at my door in a neat & clean outfit.
- you will come to me freshly bathed and lightly scented.
- your make-up shall be tastefully done in lighter shades, it is safer to wear not enough than too much. I know you are a slut, you don't have to tell me with your make-up.
- your hair will be clean and fashioned as you would for any other special occasion.
- you will be freshly shaven.
- your nails will be manicured, neat and clean, I do like semi-long painted nails, but this is not required.
- you will make all necessary arrangements for accommodations 2 days in advance, if held in your location, so I may make my final plans.
- Before signing the contract you will remove all clothing and jewelry except piercings, so you are prepared to kneel at that time.
The Contract
At the beginning of a scene you will be required to sign a contract and are expected to live by the terms and conditions written therein, lest punishment. After you sign the contract you will perform the kneel command immediately. Then, you will be asked a few questions and if you answer them correctly, I will sign the form, accept your submission and you will wear my collar.
Safe word
A safe word is used here for your protection in unforseen difficulties. I would like you to yell out "red light" as our safe word. you will accept the responsibility of using your safe word only when necessary, but know that the use of a safe word is respected here. If a condition arises in which you need to use the safe word, you be unfastened allowed to relax and inform me of the problem, I will assess the situation and determine an appropriate course of action.
Commands
Here is a list of some of the commands that you are required to know when you submit to me. We will work on style and grace when I have you under my control. These commands are to be followed with a sense of urgency, your action will begin as the command is spoken.
Kneel (kneeling):
- This is the first position you will use when you first submit to me.
- You will kneel before me with your knees apart, back straight, head up and eyes lowered. You will sit back on your heels. Your hands will be on your thighs, palms upward, relaxed and alluring,
- You will stay in this position awaiting your next command.
- You will not move from this position even if something physical may befall you, you must remain steady.
- This command can be used as a fresh starting point if you should become confused or disoriented. You may ask for permission to speak, I will hear your plea and after consideration I will give you your next command.
Kneel Up:
- You will lower yourself to your knees and spread them apart before me. Your ass should be tight as if to be thrusting your pussy toward me. Your back will be straight with your head bowed and eyes lowered. Your arms should be relaxed at your side with hands pressing on your thighs.
- You will stay in this position awaiting your next command.
- You will not move from this position even if something physical may befall you, you must remain steady.
Sit (place)
- If you are told to sit on a flat surface you will sit cross legged with your hands on your knees.
- If you are told to sit on a chair, you sit with your legs open to match the chair and your arms on the rests or on the side of the chair
- In both instances you will keep your head up and eyes down.
Attention
- You will stand straight with your legs shoulder width apart. Your arms should be relaxed at your side with your hands pressing your thighs. Your head will be bowed slightly with your eyes lowered.
- You will stay in this position awaiting your next command.
- You will not move from this position even if something physical may befall you, you must remain steady.
Bow
- you will start from the kneeling position and bring your hands forward toward me crossing them at the thumbs on the floor before me.
- you will lower yourself to touch the floor with your forehead keeping your legs apart.
- you will "park" your ass high to make it completely available for viewing or any other pleasure I may choose to take from it.
- you will stay in this position awaiting your next command.
- you will not move from this position even if something physical may befall you, you must remain steady.
At ease (place)
- you will go to the "place" and relax. You may sit in any position as long as you do not cover yourself to me.
- you will remain prepared for service upon hearing a command.
- you are free to speak your mind in a respectful way as you would out of scene, mindful that this privilege ends with the issue of a command.
- you still need permission to leave your "place" for a drink, restroom privileges or any other reason.
Crawl (place)
- you will crawl on your hands and knees to the "place".
- you will remain there, facing the place" on all fours awaiting your next command.
Get (item)
- Simple right? Not. When the get command is issued you will immediately go to get the "item" in a swift manner and when bringing the "item" back shall use two hands knowing that my property is valuable and will not be dropped.
- When "presenting the item" to me you will lower yourself to your knees, bow your head and offer it to me with both hands above your head.
- you will remain in this position until the item is taken from you, and then without oral direction, you will perform the command of Kneel.
Fetch (item)
- Similar to get except you must crawl to get the "item" and you will pick up the "item" with your mouth and bring it to me on your hands and knees.
- you will remain on all fours to present the "item" with your head up.
- you will remain in this position until the "item" is taken from you, then without oral direction, you will move to kneeling position.
Domestic Tasks
All the domestic tasks below require that you start by removing all clothing and putting on stockings and high heels. If I want you to wear anything else like an apron I will put it on you.
Prepare meal
- you will dress for a domestic task
- prepare meal with loving care using only fresh ingredients
- do not spit in my food nor pick it up from the floor and serve it to me. you will be punished severely.
Serve meal
- you will dress for a domestic task
- you will stand the entire time it takes for me to enjoy my meal and eat at the counter within my view when your service is not needed.
- Before serving my meal you will taste test each item for poison and quality of preparation.
- after the main course you will bring me a lit cigarette and clean ash tray and prepare for dessert
- Desert
- you will clear the table and wipe it off, I tend to be a sloppy eater with good manners.
- you will set the desert items on the opposite side of the table from me.
- you will lie on the table, face up with your hands at your side and legs slightly parted.
- you will remain still while I eat my desert.
Clean up
- you will continually clean as you serve
- Carefully place all dishes and cook ware in the dish washer and add soap. Do Not turn the dishwasher on, it is forbidden for a submissive to operated an electronic device.
- After desert you may go to the bath room to clean yourself or shower if necessary.
Enter and Exit
When you enter and exit my presence, I want to know about it, so there is a procedure to be followed.
Enter
- When you enter a room that I am in, you will come to me
- you will give me a small curtsy, and you will perform the attention command
- you will wait there until I decide what I want to do. If I kiss you, you will remain still, but if I hug you, you may reciprocate in kind.
- Wait for next command or continue previous command.
Exit
- When a command or order requires you to leave the room you come to me and stand before me and curtsy.
- you will stand at attention while waiting for permission to leave.
- As you leave you will wiggle your ass for me.
Punishments
Punishments will be severe and extreme if necessary, they will also be fair and honest. The punishment will fit the crime. Refusal to accept punishment will end the scene and you will be sent home for good. Not obeying a command being one of the highest offences next to talking back, will require severe punishment.
Release
you will understand that I do appreciate your submission but there are rules to be followed:
- No item placed on you by me will ever be removed by you. This is a very serious offence and will be dealt with severely.
- As I release you, we will start with your leg iron after which you can return to your kneeling position.
- While I am removing your wrist cuffs is a good time to thank me, many times, for everything I have done for you.
- Finally, when I remove my collar from your neck, you are free to do as you please. you may stay to reflect on our experience, leave or even slap me if you never want to return.
- At this time you are free to talk about your true heart's desire and it can be discussed at length.
- You will be thanked for your submission.
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